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When you first met your wife, you pursued her. You wanted to see her. You asked questions. You planned things. You noticed her. But somewhere along the way, life happened and sometimes the woman you couldn’t wait to spend your life with starts to feel more like a roommate you’re managing life with.

This week on the podcast, Victor and I ask a difficult question: When did I stop choosing her?

On this week’s episode we talk about:
🔹How good marriages slowly drift without us realizing it
🔹Why your wife still needs to know she’s worth pursuing
🔹How resentment and “keeping receipts” create distance
🔹The difference between living together and actually sharing a life
🔹Simple ways to start choosing your wife again every day

And by the end of the show, we will give you a 7-Day Choose Her Challenge—one intentional thing each day that tells your wife, I still choose you.

If your marriage has felt distant lately, or you simply want to love your wife better, I hope you’ll find help in our message this week.

Follow this link to order your signed copy of our new book, Power Made Perfect: Finding True Strength in Christ, today!

Find out more info on our upcoming pilgrimage to the Holy Land!

There’s a strange contradiction a lot of men live with: We desperately want someone to know we’re struggling—but we keep telling everyone we’re fine.

We get really good at smiling, showing up, taking care of everyone else, and convincing the people around us that everything is okay. Then we wonder why nobody really knows us.

This week, Victor and I talk about:
🔹Why men can have good friends and still feel completely alone
🔹Why we’re so afraid to let people see what we’re really going through
🔹Why you can’t expect someone else to know you if you’re not honest with yourself
🔹What Jesus shows us about vulnerability and asking others to stay with us

We also give you four practical things you can do this week to stop carrying everything alone. If you’ve ever thought, “Nobody really knows what I’m going through,” this episode is for you. Check out the episode and share it with someone who may need to hear it.

Follow this link to order your signed copy of our new book, Power Made Perfect: Finding True Strength in Christ, today!

Find out more info on our upcoming pilgrimage to the Holy Land!

Have you ever promised yourself, “I’m never doing that again”—only to find yourself right back there a few days or weeks later? Lying. Judging. Anger. Drinking. Gossip. Lust. Whatever the struggle is, eventually we start asking:

Why do I keep doing something I don’t want to do?

This week on the podcast, Victor and I get very real about why we keep falling into the same sins—and why the battle is often lost long before the actual fall.

We talk about:
🔹How to recognize the patterns that lead you into temptation
🔹Why simply “trying harder” usually isn’t enough
🔹The doors we keep leaving open in our lives
🔹The second temptation that comes after we fall
🔹Practical steps you can take to actually start fighting differently

If there’s something in your life you genuinely want to change, this episode is for you.

Follow this link to order your signed copy of our new book, Power Made Perfect: Finding True Strength in Christ, today!

Find out more info on our upcoming pilgrimage to the Holy Land!

Have you ever lost your temper over something small—and ten minutes later wondered, Why did that bother me so much?

Maybe the anger isn’t actually the problem. Maybe it’s pointing to something underneath.

This week, Victor and I get real about why we get so angry, what our anger may be trying to tell us, and how Jesus wants to heal more than the behavior—He wants to get to what lies beneath it.

If you keep telling yourself, I’m not going to lose my temper again, only to find yourself doing it anyway, this episode is for you.

In this episode we cover:
🔹Why anger itself isn’t necessarily sinful
🔹What’s often hiding underneath our anger—fear, rejection, insecurity, shame, hurt, exhaustion, or the need for control
🔹Why the people we love often end up paying for wounds they didn’t cause
🔹What Scripture and the Church teach us about anger
🔹How Jesus wants to heal the what beneath the surface instead of simply helping us manage the symptom
🔹Concrete steps to take to deal with Anger issues

Follow this link to order your signed copy of our new book, Power Made Perfect: Finding True Strength in Christ, today!

Find out more info on our upcoming pilgrimage to the Holy Land!

There is a question that men ask me all the time. How do you know if you’ve really changed? If you’ve really healed? If you’re actually becoming the man God created you to be?

This week, we wrap up our Power Made Perfect series with the final step: Restoration.

And here’s the truth: a restored life isn’t a perfect life. You’ll still struggle. You’ll still be tempted. You’ll still fall sometimes. The difference is that you don’t have to respond the way you used to. When that changes, you start to see the difference in who you used to be and who you are becoming. Restoration is coming to understand whose you are, who you are, and then beginning to live in and through that relationship each day of your life.

In this episode, we talk about:
🔹Why restoration is a lifelong process
🔹The difference between reacting from your wounds and responding from Christ
🔹Why suffering doesn’t disappear when you follow Jesus
🔹How to recognize the evidence that you really are changing
🔹How the entire Power Made Perfect process becomes a way of life

One of the biggest things I’ve learned is this: I’m not who I used to be—but I’m also not yet who God is making me into.

That’s restoration. Not perfection. Not the absence of struggle. It’s a lifelong journey that I can look forward to each and every day. With every success and every difficulty, there is an opportunity to learn and a chance to become more like Christ.

Follow this link to order your signed copy of our new book, Power Made Perfect: Finding True Strength in Christ, today!

Find out more info on our upcoming pilgrimage to the Holy Land!

Your Wounds Don’t Have to Define You

There are things that happened to us years ago that may still be driving the way we live today.

The rejection. The abandonment. The shame. The fear.

We may not even realize how much the wounds—and the lies we believed because of them—are affecting our relationships, our choices, and even the way we see God.

This week in the Power Made Perfect Series, we’re talking about Healing. It is one of the most crucial phases in the process of restoration.

In this episode:
🔹How to recognize the wounds you’re still living out of
🔹The lies we begin believing because of what happened to us
🔹Why changing behavior isn’t always enough
🔹How to invite Jesus into the places that still hurt
🔹How our wounds can become signs of victory instead of defeat

Your wounds are part of your story. They don’t have to define it.

Check out Dr. Bob’s Work: https://jpiihealingcenter.org/

Follow this link to order your signed copy of our new book, Power Made Perfect: Finding True Strength in Christ, today!

Find out more info on our upcoming pilgrimage to the Holy Land!